October 10, 2025

7 Taylor Swift First Dance Songs for Your Big Day (and When to Play Each One)

Jimmy Enloe
9 min read
Music & Song Selection

Discover the perfect Taylor Swift songs for your wedding first dance. Expert DJ guidance on 7 romantic Taylor Swift tracks and when to play each one for your Houston wedding celebration.

Why Taylor Swift for Your First Dance?

Taylor Swift has become one of the most requested artists for wedding first dances—and for good reason. Her catalog spans over a decade of love songs that capture every emotion, from nervous butterflies to deep, lasting commitment.

As Houston wedding DJs, we've seen countless couples choose Taylor Swift for their first dance, and each song brings something unique to that magical moment. Let's break down the best options and help you find the perfect fit.

The 7 Best Taylor Swift First Dance Songs

1. "Lover" – The Classic Choice

Best For: Traditional romantic couples who want a timeless, heartfelt moment

Length: 3:41 | Vibe: Sweet, romantic, intimate

"Can I go where you go? Can we always be this close?" This is THE Taylor Swift wedding song. Released specifically as a love letter to her partner, "Lover" is gentle, sincere, and perfect for a slow, romantic first dance.

Pro Tip: The song has a natural fade-out ending, which works beautifully for couples who want a soft, dreamy conclusion to their dance.

2. "Mine" – The Storytelling Anthem

Best For: Couples who overcame obstacles or have a "we made it" love story

Length: 3:51 | Vibe: Uplifting, hopeful, triumphant

"You made a rebel of a careless man's careful daughter." This song tells a story of finding love despite doubts and fears. It's perfect for couples who feel like they've found their person against all odds.

Pro Tip: This one has more energy than "Lover," making it great for couples who want a slightly more upbeat first dance without going full party mode.

3. "Everything Has Changed" (feat. Ed Sheeran) – The Duet

Best For: Couples who want a male and female perspective in their song

Length: 4:05 | Vibe: Sweet, acoustic, balanced

"All I know is we said hello, and your eyes look like coming home." This duet with Ed Sheeran captures the feeling of meeting someone and knowing your life will never be the same.

Pro Tip: The male/female back-and-forth vocals make this a popular choice for couples who want a song that represents both perspectives.

4. "Enchanted" – The Fairytale Romance

Best For: Couples who love dramatic, sweeping romance

Length: 5:52 | Vibe: Dramatic, magical, cinematic

"This night is sparkling, don't you let it go." "Enchanted" is for the hopeless romantics. It builds beautifully and feels like a storybook moment come to life.

Pro Tip: At nearly 6 minutes, this is one of her longer songs. We often edit it down to about 4 minutes for the first dance to keep the energy flowing.

5. "Begin Again" – The Second-Chance Love Story

Best For: Couples who found love after heartbreak or later in life

Length: 3:57 | Vibe: Gentle, hopeful, peaceful

"I've been spending the last eight months thinking all love ever does is break and burn and end. But on a Wednesday in a cafe, I watched it begin again."

This is a beautiful choice for couples who are getting married later in life, remarrying, or who found each other after difficult past relationships.

Pro Tip: The acoustic guitar and soft vocals create an intimate atmosphere that's perfect for a tender moment.

6. "You Are In Love" – The Quiet Confidence

Best For: Couples who prefer understated elegance over big gestures

Length: 4:26 | Vibe: Calm, serene, observational

"You can hear it in the silence, you can feel it on the way home, you can see it with the lights out—you are in love."

This song is all about the small, everyday moments that define a relationship. It's perfect for couples who appreciate subtlety and depth.

Pro Tip: This one stays mellow throughout, making it ideal for couples who want a quiet, intimate vibe without dramatic crescendos.

7. "Invisible String" – The Destiny Song

Best For: Couples who believe they were meant to find each other

Length: 4:12 | Vibe: Whimsical, optimistic, folksy

"Time, mystical time, cutting me open then healing me fine. Were there clues I didn't see?"

"Invisible String" explores the idea that fate brought you together. It's lighthearted, sweet, and full of warmth.

Pro Tip: This song has a folksy, acoustic feel that works beautifully for outdoor or rustic-themed weddings.

When to Play Each Song (Beyond the First Dance)

Not every Taylor Swift song has to be your first dance! Here's when else these songs can shine:

  • "Lover" – First dance, last dance, or during dinner
  • "Mine" – Cake cutting or bouquet toss (has more energy)
  • "Everything Has Changed" – First dance or during cocktail hour
  • "Enchanted" – Grand entrance or reception opener
  • "Begin Again" – First dance or during dinner
  • "You Are In Love" – Dinner music or slideshow background
  • "Invisible String" – Cocktail hour or during dinner

How We Help You Nail Your First Dance

At Enloe Entertainment, we don't just press play on your first dance song. We:

  • Edit songs to the perfect length (no awkward 6-minute dances)
  • Time the lighting to match key moments in the song
  • Add effects like Dancing on a Cloud to make it truly cinematic
  • Cue your photographer/videographer so they capture every moment
  • Fade out gracefully so you're not left standing awkwardly when the song ends

The Bottom Line

Taylor Swift has something for every couple—whether you want timeless romance, hopeful optimism, or quiet intimacy. The key is choosing a song that feels like you, not just what sounds pretty.

Ready to plan your perfect first dance? Let's chat →

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