Sometimes the most memorable weddings aren't the ones where everyone's dancing on tables until 2 AM. Sometimes they're the quiet celebrations that leave you thinking long after you've packed up your last speaker. That's exactly what happened at Kristin and Cesar's wedding at Deep in the Heart Farms in Brenham, Texas.
Walking into Deep in the Heart Farms that Saturday afternoon, I could feel something different in the air. Sure, the venue was gorgeous, rolling hills, that perfect rustic chapel, and enough photo ops to make any Instagram bride happy. But this wasn't going to be your typical "let's party until we drop" kind of celebration.
Kristin and Cesar had made it clear from our first consultation: God was going to be at the center of their day. Not just mentioned in passing during the ceremony, but truly woven into every moment. And let me tell you, their officiant absolutely delivered on that vision.
What happened after they said "I do" was something I'd never experienced in my years as a wedding DJ in Houston, Texas. Instead of the usual rush to cocktail hour, the officiant did something incredible. He invited all the married couples in attendance to take a walk around the property, to find a quiet spot together and spend some time reflecting on their own marriage vows.
I watched from behind my equipment as couples of all ages wandered off in different directions. Some headed toward the old oak trees, others found benches near the pond. There were newlyweds holding hands and couples who'd been married fifty years walking slowly together, talking in hushed tones. It was honestly one of the most beautiful things I've witnessed at a wedding.
Here's where things get interesting from a DJ perspective. During our planning calls, Kristin and Cesar kept rating themselves as "maybe a 4 out of 10" when it came to party energy. They were worried their guests wouldn't dance, that the reception would be too quiet, that maybe they weren't fun enough for a proper celebration.
"But here's the thing, I've been doing this long enough to read between the lines."
These two had way more energy than they gave themselves credit for. Their friends were clearly ready to celebrate, and even during our ceremony sound check, I could see people getting excited about the reception.
In my professional opinion? They were easily a solid 5.5, maybe even a 6 out of 10. Not every wedding needs to be a full-blown dance marathon to be absolutely perfect. Sometimes the best celebrations are the ones where people actually talk to each other, where the music complements the conversation instead of drowning it out.
This is where things got really interesting. Kristin and Cesar specifically asked for a "not too loud" DJ experience. They wanted their guests to be able to have conversations without shouting over the music. Fair enough, I've worked plenty of intimate receptions where the focus is more on connection than getting everyone to bust out their best moves.
But then came their specific request: could I set up away from the dance floor? They'd seen setups at other weddings where the DJ was front and center, and they worried it might make things feel too... intense? Too focused on dancing when they really wanted a more laid-back vibe?
So I tried something different. I set up my equipment in a corner where I could still see everything and control the music, but I wasn't the focal point of the room. The dance floor was clear, open, and inviting without a big DJ booth dominating the space.
Well, that's complicated.
Here's my honest take on the distance experiment: it was a mixed bag. On the positive side, the room definitely felt more open and conversational. Guests weren't intimidated by a big setup right next to the dance floor, and the overall vibe was exactly what Kristin and Cesar wanted: elegant, relaxed, focused on celebrating their love rather than putting on a show.
But (and there's always a but), being farther away made it harder for me to read the room in real time. Normally, I can see when someone's about to request a song, when the energy needs a boost, or when it's time to slow things down. From my corner position, I had to rely more on the planned playlist and less on those spontaneous moments that can make a reception really special.
The dancing did happen, though! Once people had a few drinks and the sun started setting, couples naturally gravitated toward the dance floor. It just took a little longer to get going, and the energy built more gradually than it might have with a more traditional setup.
Here's my honest take on the distance experiment: it was a mixed bag. On the positive side, the room definitely felt more open and conversational. Guests weren't intimidated by a big setup right next to the dance floor, and the overall vibe was exactly what Kristin and Cesar wanted: elegant, relaxed, focused on celebrating their love rather than putting on a show.
But (and there's always a but), being farther away made it harder for me to read the room in real time. Normally, I can see when someone's about to request a song, when the energy needs a boost, or when it's time to slow things down. From my corner position, I had to rely more on the planned playlist and less on those spontaneous moments that can make a reception really special.
The dancing did happen, though! Once people had a few drinks and the sun started setting, couples naturally gravitated toward the dance floor. It just took a little longer to get going, and the energy built more gradually than it might have with a more traditional setup.
Working Kristin and Cesar's wedding reminded me why I love being a wedding DJ in Houston, Texas. Not every celebration looks the same, and that's exactly how it should be. Their day wasn't about checking boxes or following a standard wedding timeline: it was about creating an experience that reflected who they are as a couple.
The faith element wasn't just ceremonial. It carried through the entire reception. The music choices, the timing of events, even the way guests interacted with each other: everything felt more intentional, more connected to something bigger than just having a good time.
I overheard so many conversations about how meaningful the ceremony was, how much they appreciated the time to reflect on their own marriages, how refreshing it was to attend a wedding that felt so authentic to the couple.
And you know what? Their guests absolutely loved it. I overheard so many conversations about how meaningful the ceremony was, how much they appreciated the time to reflect on their own marriages, how refreshing it was to attend a wedding that felt so authentic to the couple.
At the end of the night, as I was packing up my equipment, Kristin came over with tears in her eyes. Not because anything went wrong, but because everything had gone exactly right. Their day had been a perfect reflection of their relationship: grounded in faith, surrounded by love, and focused on what really matters.
Were they a 4 out of 10 for traditional party energy? Maybe. But they were a 10 out of 10 for creating a wedding that was authentically theirs. And honestly, that's way more important than making sure everyone knows all the words to "Sweet Caroline."
The DJ distance experiment? I'd call it a qualified success. It worked for their specific vision and guest list, though I might suggest a slight modification for future couples with similar requests.
Maybe positioning the setup at an angle where I can still read the room while maintaining that open, non-intimidating feeling they wanted.
We hired Jimmy for our wedding this December and couldn't have asked for a better experience! The planning process was smooth with making song choices/playlists through an app. Jimmy was super helpful and quick to responsive to my requests and questions throughout the planning process.
We are incredibly grateful for the professionalism and talent he brought to our special day and would highly recommend booking Enloe Entertainment LLC for any wedding/event!!
Kristin & Cesar
Deep in the Heart Farms
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